Let’s first get a grasp on a few pieces of background information. First off, how do most men make conversation with a woman they’re attracted to? What do they do right, wrong or completely miss out from their talks with the opposite sex? The best way to answer these questions is simply to identify the mistakes the majority of men out there make – things every guy, for whatever reason, chooses to do when talking to a girl, that hinder – rather than help – his chances of hooking up with her.

Mistake #1: ASKING TOO MANY QUESTIONS. Lots of men worry that when they start talking to a girl, she won’t say much back. This outcome, standing there – suffering an awkward, embarrassing silence – is so much of a concern that they ask the girl question after question to avoid it. The reason they bombard her with questions is because they think that the best way of getting and keeping the girl talking is by giving her more and more opportunities to say something, no matter what the topic happens to be. Unfortunately, doing this sends out a very negative message. It actually shows that you’re nervous and would prefer her to do most of the talking, which often turns the woman off completely.

Mistake #2: NEVER SHUTTING UP. This is the opposite scenario to the one above, but happens for the same reason. Some men, scared that the girl they’re talking to will up and leave any second, choose to talk endlessly in an effort to keep their attention. Again, this is immediately obvious as a sign of social inexperience and nervousness.

Mistake #3: BORING HER TO DEATH. It’s not easy talking to a girl who’s beautiful, sexy and usually practically unattainable. So when a guy gets chatting to a girl he really likes, who’s hot and confident, he doesn’t want to mess it up – after all, it might not happen again for ages! So, in an attempt to limit the chance of saying something that might ruin the interaction and thus his chances with her, he subconsciously restricts the topics of conversation he brings up. He talks about work, the weather, sports, current affairs, perhaps bombards her with a few questions on those subjects…and generally doesn’t push the boat out much.

Okay, so they’re 3 of the worst mistakes a guy can make when talking to a girl he likes. So let’s flip the coin and look at what he SHOULD be doing.

Objective #1: PROGRESSIVE QUESTIONING. Choose what questions you ask the girl wisely. You don’t want to throw too many her way too quickly. If you do, you give her too much control over the conversation and don’t provide her with a challenge. So, use progressive questioning – ask her questions that she MUST give a detailed response to. Avoid Yes/No questions and instead quiz her on things that require emotion-packed responses. “Do you come her often?” is a terrible question. “What do you think this place could do to make it feel more lively and fun?” is much better, as it not only requires a more detailed reply than a simple “Yes” or “No,” it also probes the girl on what makes her feel good.

Objective #2: Don’t be afraid to let short pauses punctuate your conversation with a girl. Many men panic when they hear a silence and jump in with another question or statement to fill it. Don’t make the same mistake. A confident, dominant guy – the kind of man women love – isn’t afraid of little pauses, because they’re natural and harmless. He simply, waits a second or two, sips his drink, smiles and goes with the flow.

Objective #3: It’s okay to use common topics of conversation when you first get talking to a girl. But move away from the mundane stuff as quickly as you can and instead choose to tell engaging stories. Describe a great holiday you had, an amazing concert you recently went to…make it positive and interesting and you engage the girl’s emotions and make her want to tell YOU about her own good times. When this happens, instant rapport and sexual chemistry is born.

Rachel Davis is the author of Conversation-King, a guide that teaches men how to attract and seduce women by mastering the art of verbal communication.

Men who would love to meet and date a beautiful girl or two choose not to go out and actually try to make it happen, on the most part, because of a deep-seated fear of rejection. They hate the idea that they might get shot down and embarrassed. And they know that if they try their hardest and STILL get rejected, they definitely have no hope with women, now or ever. So, they prefer to stay at home with the vague ambition that one day they might make something happen. On the other hand, there are men out there that do try to meet and get together with girls – and, unfortunately, they get rejected every now and then. Once it’s happened a couple of times, those brush-offs take their toll on the guy: his confidence dwindles, his sense of humor begins to fade, and most noticeably, his motivation vanishes. He becomes like 80% of the rest of the male population: a dreamer and not a do’er.

The first thing you need to do is recognise the POSITIVE function rejection serves. You need to define it in your mind. What is it and what does it mean? Rejection often comes in the following forms:

1. You’ve been talking to a girl for a while and things seem to be going well but when you ask to see her again or suggest swapping numbers she suddenly freezes up on you and shuts you out.

2. You try to get talking to a girl but she only gives you the minimal amount of recognition possible and doesn’t allow you to start a real conversation.

3. You’ve been on a couple of dates with a girl but have yet to take it further. When you try to progress the relationship, she clams up and becomes distant and seemingly uninterested.

Whatever type of rejection you’ve experience or fear the most, you need to fully recognise what it is. It’s a sign that one or more components of your game – that is, your ability to be successful with women – isn’t functioning correctly. It’s like a flashing red light in a submarine, it’s telling you something ain’t right and, most importantly, that you need to DO something to fix it. That’s the key point most men consistently miss – they think being rejected is the end of the line, game over. In fact, it’s simply a changing of the tracks on your path to success. Consider the following important points whenever you feel rejection negatively controlling your ability to do well with the opposite sex:

1. If a girl rejects your advances when you introduce yourself or try to start a conversation, it means she has decided that, for whatever reason, you aren’t someone she wants to get to know. However, remember this absolutely critical fact: she’s made her decision based on how you presented yourself in the short amount of time she knew/knows you. Rethinking how you act, speak and behave can produce a reaction that falls at the complete opposite end of the scale from rejection and failure: one of success and triumph. Don’t let a single brush-off impact your motivation or confidence, simply see it as a sign that you need to alter and rethink your strategy.

2. Never take things personally when you’re playing the seduction game. Although a girl might not be interested in you, it doesn’t mean she’s necessarily right to feel that way or correct in the assumption she’s made of you. People make snap decisions and have knee-jerk reactions to people, places and situations every day, in the positive AND negative. Your goal is to make a good first impression and exude a strong sense of confidence and relaxation. Once you do that, your bad luck seems to magically disappear and a new long-term streak of good fortune begins. (Which is actually thanks to the fact that you didn’t let rejection get you down and instead used it as a sign that you needed to change something.)

If you can remember the concepts above and use them when ‘out in the field’, you’ll notice an almost hypnotic effect most men out there would kill to have themselves. Because, you see, it’s when you yourself can brush-off the brush-offs that real success happens and also what leads to you meeting and getting to know the girl of your dreams.

W. Wilcox is the author of HypnoDate – a revolutionary manual that teaches men how to use special hypnotic principles to become masters of attraction and seduction, without the need for good looks, money or a flash car.

So, with that said, let’s look at the top 7 ways to flirt with women:

1. The Confident Eye Gaze

This is how you start your interest. Nothing shows confidence off the bat like meeting a girl’s eyes, and KEEPING YOUR STARE. If you see her look down and smile, you know you’ve made it and the time to approach is now. If she looks away from you but doesn’t smile, give her a shot nonetheless; just the fact that she met your eyes for a second or two shows interest.

2. The Dale Head Drop

So named after the guy who mastered the art of getting women rushing to his side, just with a simple shrug! If you really want to blow away a girl–and show some balls–meet a girl’s eyes, then knowingly drop your head to the side, as if to say, “Hey, you know you want me. Come over here and get me!” I’ve found this to work incredibly well in foreign countries. In the States, the girls tend to be able to see through it a bit more–but it still works!

3. Smile!

It’s often overlooked, but nothing communicates happiness, confidence, and interest in a girl all in one like a nice big smile. Show the girl you’re in control, show her you’re confident, show her you’re a fun guy to be around: brighten the place up with a big smile! And if your teeth need work, then get them fixed! It’s good not just for your chances of meeting a girl, but also for your health and appearance!

4. Open Body Language

So many guys walk or sit with their arms crossed, their legs close together, and their faces anxious and flat. Stop that! Welcome a girl into your world: Have your arms open and leaned back, your legs open and relaxed, your face warm and inviting. You’ll not only attract yourself into a girl’s world, but also into the world of people at a party, club, or bar who can help you meet a future girlfriend–or even wife!

5. Lean back her

As you’re talking to a girl, especially while seated, show her your interest with confidence by leaning away. This is the confident, assured posture of the alpha man, something dating expert, Carlos Xuma, discusses in detail in my course. It forces her to lean into YOU, thereby putting you in the position of the chooser. It also communicates signals to her that she has to EARN your respect–that you’re not going to just give it away. And that drives her, WILD!

Of course, when things are going well and you’re starting to develop a bond, you want to lean in. You don’t want to be a creep, of course, but you can generally tell by a girl’s body language and tone of voice, how interested she is in you. If things are looking good, show her your control of the situation–and confidence in yourself–by leaning in and generally getting closer to her. This communicates to her that you’re ready to take things to the next level. If you’ve done your homework correctly, she’ll be ready, too.

So, what are the other techniques you need to know to get yourself to the next level?

There’s also so much space to answer this question, but there is one place that has ALL the answers:

My “How to Be Irresistible to Women: The Mastery Series” multimedia course!

There are over TEN different interviews with the masters of seduction, the top gurus in their field. From Joseph Matthews and Savoy, to Carlos Xuma and Zan, these guys cover EVERYTHING. From conquering your insecurities and developing permanent self-belief, to mastering the art of the approach, even to generating sexual interest within minutes of meeting a woman: it’s all in there. So check it out now!James

Host of “How To Be Irresistible To Women Mastery Series”
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About the author:

James is the author of “How to Be Irresistible to Women PREMIUM” and host of the “How to Be Irresistible to Women MASTERY SERIES.” His years of dating experience and international travel have tutored him in the art of meeting and seducing females the world over and introduces a worldly approach to dating and developing real relationships necessary for the modern man.

The “How to Be Irresistible to Women PREMIUM” and “MASTERY SERIES” packages offer guys like you a dynamic and comprehensive toolkit to transform your dating success and establish a real and exciting relationship with the kind of woman you never thought you could get. James has thousands of satisfied customers worldwide who have used his learning system to help them change their lives.

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After all, how are men supposed to know what each girl’s looking for without asking?

If you DID ask, you know your chances would be small, after all, no girl wants a guy approaching her with needy questions – she wants a confident man who somehow seems to know what she’s after and can give it to her.

So how do you do it?

How do you become the man that effortlessly exudes confidence, dominance and presence, without turning into an arrogant poser or desperate wannabe?

The answer lies in psychology. It’s at the heart of all persuasive social situations, and absolutely central to the success of any guy’s attempts at attracting and seducing women. Quite simply, by learning the CORRECT psychological rules, principles and tactics, any guy can play and WIN at the game of seduction. For example, let’s look at one such psychological technique, that used correctly boosts any guy’s chance of getting a girl’s number or hooking up with her at a later date by at least 50%, each and every time he uses it. It’s called option limitation and works on the following principle of human nature:

When someone’s presented with only a single choice, often their natural reaction will be to rebel against it and go their own way. However, when given 2 or 3 options, the opposite occurs: they feel their intellectual freedom has been respected and they make their choice from the variety of options they’ve been presented with.

You can use this universal psychological principle when picking-up or seducing a woman by carefully constructing how you pose important questions or phrases while talking to her.

For example, most men think saying: “Can I have your number?” is an okay way to finish a conversation that’s gone well with a girl. But a much more powerful and effective way of saying the same thing would be to use option limitation. Something like: “It’s been nice to meet you. Shall we swap numbers or maybe grab a bite to eat and a drink tomorrow?” What you’re doing is presenting the girl with a choice between good and better – whichever she says yes to, you win. If you only give her one option, as in the first example, she’s likely to create her own alternative, which means there’s a chance she won’t say yes to the option you gave her. When she subconsciously recognizes that she’s been given a choice between multiple outcomes, she feels her intellectual freedom has been respected and she chooses one of them.

So, always use option limitation to give the impression there’s a variety of options available to the girl – even though each one is fine as far as you’re concerned. And to strengthen the effect of option limitation, always try to separate the choices you give the girl with the word “or.” When people hear “or” they automatically recognize that they need to make a choice, and therefore do just that.

Option limitation is just one example of how, whether they know it or not, men who are successful with women CREATE that success for themselves – not through luck or good fortune.

Tiffany Taylor is the female author of GuyGetsGirl, a special guide for men that reveals all the dirty tricks women play on guys each and every day. And, most importantly, how men can turn the tables on women by using special psychological techniques to attract and seduce them, anywhere, anytime…effortlessly.

It seems that when it comes to men chasing women, we guys are divided into two camps: the nice guys… and the bad boys. This is a very extreme way of looking at things, making men think that they have to make some huge decision with serious repercussions, like choosing between the Jedi and Dark Side, good and bad, black and white. But what about the middle ground? If you’re a nice guy who puts women on a pedestal and lets them get away with everything, you certainly can’t let them keep doing this. But if you’re a bad guy who treats women like yesterday’s garbage, you’re not gonna do much better either. So there’s got to be some compromise. Here are my seven proven techniques for getting women by embracing your “inner bad boy”–while still allowing yourself to be you.

1. Surprise them.
If there’s one thing girls love, it’s a surprise. There’s nothing better than keeping them on their toes. Do this by going against social norms; for example, giving her the “black power fist” when she’s expecting a handshake. Or walk up to her and challenge her to a game of thumb wars. As you’re having a great conversation, say you’ve gotta leave. This all goes a long ways towards making her heart flutter, and making YOU more attractive–without being a complete dooschbag. =)

2. Do the unexpected.
Unfortunately, nice guys always do what they’re SUPPOSED to do. They say hello, ask sincerely how a girl is, stare in awe as she says she’s a model. BORING. Nah, you’ve gotta release your inner bad boy by doing the stuff you’re NOT supposed to do. Show her you’re fun, show her you’re fearless: flirt shamelessly, grin at a sexual comment, tease unabashedly. You don’t have to be a complete jerk to do these things, just a guy who’s confident that he’ll get away with things that aren’t “the norm”. Girls love to not know what to expect, so do the unexpected!

3. Be a rebel.
I’m not saying to break the law, but don’t always go by the rules. Show her you’re fun, break conventions here and there. So what if there are people watching! Give her a big kiss in the middle of the street. So what if boardwalk is closed? Take her for a romantic midnight stroll Who cares if the speed limit is 50? Drive her at 75 and watch her scream in delight. You don’t have to be a complete jerk to show a girl some fun.

4. Get physical.
If you’re not already at a gym or into martial arts, now is the time. Girls love a guy who can kick butt. It’s the part of the bad boy that makes them feel safe and secure. So get to work on your body–nothing says irresistible like a man in shape who can kick some butt.

5. Make her feel safe.
Show her your confidence, your self-assuredness by taking her hand, walking on the side of the sidewalk closest to the street, and never backing down from any situation. That’s not a license to get into fights, just to make her feel protected.

6. Tease.
This is a strategy you can’t go wrong with. Bad boys never let a girl get away with unacceptable behavior. If she’s talking like she’s the greatest person ever, they’ll joke, “Man, if this lady’s ego gets any bigger we’re all gonna have to evacuate!” If she says she’s a model, say something to the effect of, “Oh yeah? Is that it?” And show her your value by saying, “Listen, I’m afraid I’m not gonna be able to stay around. Your mouth is destroying my ear drums.” In other words, don’t be afraid to joke around and put her in her place!

7. Develop attitude.
I just can’t emphasize enough how crucial having a winning, confident attitude is. You don’t care what others say. You don’t care what others think. No matter how a woman reacts, it just blows right over you. That’s because you’re always in control. No woman—whether beautiful, popular, or rich—has power over you. You don’t need anyone, you’re not dependent on anyone, and you don’t have to cling to anyone. If she thinks she’s too good for you, you get right up and move to the next girl, because you’re a catch and you know it!

Remember, you don’t have to be a complete bad guy to get the girls. Just embrace the winning characteristics of bad boys, and you’ll be lining up women left and right!

Don’t forget, if you want to learn more about using “the inner bad boy” to attract more women, visit my website at:

http://www.ConquerApathy.com/Recommends/IrresistibleToWomen

Now it’s YOUR turn!

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About the author:

James is the author of the latest edition of “How to Be Irresistible to Women PREMIUM.”His years of dating experience and international travel have tutored him in the art of meeting and seducing females the world over and introduces a worldly approach to dating and developing real relationships necessary for the modern man.

The “How to Be Irresistible to Women” package offers single men a dynamic and comprehensive tool-kit to attract women and establish an honest and supportive relationship. You can learn more about how to attract the woman of your dreams at:

http://www.ConquerApathy.com/Recommends/IrresistibleToWomen
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Often men just “go for it” and consequently end up making the girl feel uncomfortable or even slightly violated because of their rushed attempt at physical closeness. Other men decide they don’t want to risk putting a girl off, so hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact – doing so usually sends out the wrong message, that the guy is either not interested in the girl, or that he’s simply too timid to show it, neither of which are attractive scenarios in the mind of a good-looking, fun-loving girl. Okay, so what’s the solution to this awkward problem?

Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules or procedures, all of which conform to the personal boundaries of most girl (and therefore don’t appear uncalled for or rushed) but at the same time clearly indicate that you’re a confident guy who’s not afraid of getting to know girls and even showing it through casual, relaxed physical contact. So, let’s take a look.

1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them is an absolute no-no. But that’s simply not true. To form a positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something. The outside of a woman’s arm is not intimate enough a place for the touch to feel strange or out-of-place, but at the same time it’s a clear-cut sign that you’re a personable, socially adept kind of guy. Don’t be afraid to give it a try – you’ll notice the benefits immediately.

2. Once you’ve started a conversation with a girl, or when you randomly find yourself chatting to a woman you really like the look of, it’s important to keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport you’ve already created and also helps build it further, into mutually felt sexual attraction. You can use something called ‘Stealth Tactility’ to do this. Quite simply, stealth tactility involves making physical contact with the girl in a disguised way. For example, if she wants to go to the bar or bathroom but doesn’t know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swivelling both of your bodies round until you face in the right direction, then point past other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.

3. Lastly, always try to use a ‘contact close’ when you finish your conversation with a girl. For example, after swapping numbers or arranging to meet again, give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug and a kiss. Many men think that the hard work’s been done once something’s been arranged for a later date, but making physical contact before you part with a girl is always a great way of ensuring she remembers you and really cannot wait to see you again.

Tiffany Taylor is the author of GuyGetsGirl, a special guide that reveals for the first time what goes on the minds of women AND how men can use special psychological and social techniques to attract and seduce them – regardless of their looks, bank balance or the car they drive. Attract And Seduce Women Today!

The most important thing to remember is that the guys that attract beautiful women are really no different than you, except for one major thing: they know what works, and they put it into action. That is honestly much easier than it sounds. These tips and simple steps will help reinforce what works, and all you have to do is take action. The best part is that taking action gets easier and easier, the more you get the results you desire. That’s how ‘those guys’ end up getting every girl you’ve ever liked, and by the night’s end you’ll be better than them, and not nearly as shallow…

The 3 basic stages of attraction:

- Starters
- Conversation
- The beyond…

These are the three essential stages to attracting beautiful women. Each one is driven by one thing: confidence. The key is to show her you’re confident with yourself, and confident that you can improve her life in some way, without bragging or making her uncomfortable.

1) Starters

Appearance is very important for getting things started. No matter how your appearance stands right now, there are hundreds of simple things you can do to improve it. Clothes, build, skin, accessories and cars are all examples of simple things to improve your confidence. You’ve seen it a million times: the guys that get them all just seem to have it all. There’s no coincidence here. However, the key is not to replicate everyone else, but to create your own identity, slightly bending the mold.

You do not have to be rich, talented, smart, ripped or hilarious to attract beautiful women. Having a balance of some or all of these things is much better for sealing the deal. If you drive up in a Ferrari and you have huge muscles, you’ll get tons of attention. But when the hot girls that talk to you find out you’re a total jerk you’ll have a tough time from that point on.

Do the things you want to do to improve your own life and build your confidence, and the beautiful women will be attracted with no effort.

Just find your identity with your appearance, and play it up. Build as much confidence in yourself as possible by taking simple steps to improve your looks like taking care of your skin, nails, hair, etc. and exercising regularly. Be sure to stick to a good diet, eating 5-6 small meals per day and avoiding high-fat and oily foods. There are tons of sources for info on these topics, and many are free. Simply subscribing to a magazine or two or looking online can help with many of these things. Follow solid advice and watch your energy skyrocket along with your confidence!

2) Conversation

After you’ve built up your confidence, you’ll be surprised at how much easier it is to approach gorgeous women. Keep things simple. Think first about what she would expect, and how it’s different from what she wants. Think from her perspective and stay confident.

Strike up a conversation about anything going on around you, not about her looks with some cheesy pickup line! Once she starts to respond, focus on the basics. Let her talk about herself, but put in your two cents. Play off of her emotions. Make her laugh, get slightly dramatic even, just don’t get carried away with details and overwhelm her. Don’t complain about your problems, don’t mention inside jokes, and don’t talk politics, religion or dirty jokes.

Always keep things comfortable, but don’t be afraid to push the envelope without offending. Tease her about something little, ask her about sex, feel free to get her thinking, as long as she is comfortable!

Tell her what you’re into, your dreams, where you work, where you want to work, where you’re from. There is so much to talk about when you first meet someone. Get excited to hear about her life, and make sure to tell her about yours. Just keep a balance between prying too much and being boring, and you’ll easily move on to the fun part…

3) The beyond

After you hit it off with her, you’re home free. Whether you’re looking for a one-night stand, someone to date randomly or even a spouse, it’s all the same at first. Treat her right, gradually reveal more about yourself and dig deeper into her life. Don’t be too pushy, but don’t be afraid to talk about sex and your relationship status, as it feels comfortable.

The more you get to know her, the easier it will be for you to determine where you want to go with the relationship. Stay confident, and get what you want. The best way to attract beautiful women is to be confident with yourself by taking action to improve your own life, then finding a balance when learning about her. Take this advice, put it into action, and attract beautiful women at will!

To recap, your 3 steps to attract beautiful women and gain unstoppable confidence are:

1) Decide what you want to improve about yourself and your life
2) Learn as much as you can from people who know how to do what you want to do
3) Take action!

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